Wednesday, July 21, 2021

Some examples of why I love Remini's app so much!

I thought I would highlight here on my blog some of my favorite examples as to why I love Remini's smartphone photo app so much! You can enhance, colorize, and so much more. So far, my favorite feature is enhancing. It's helped clear up so many old photographs of mine. Here are some examples.




Above is my 2x Grandfather, French Mefford. Look at those ears! It's a wonder my Dad and I don't have car doors for ears! I ponder if it's a result of the heavy endogamy in the Mefford family tree. French's parents were 1st cousins... and his Grandparents were double first cousins. He was the son of George Washington Mefford and Amanda Hardison. (1874-1955)





Above is my 2x Grandmother, Emma Lillie (Turner) Mefford. She was the daughter of Phylander Turner and Lucy Knight. (1879-1964)





The full photograph cleared up. I've tried colorizing it.. but the colors just don't come out 100% right. Maybe one day someone will colorize it for me instead of me trying to use an auto-colorizer. 





Above is my 2x Grandfather, Charles Clarence LaRue. This photo is from when he was around 17 or 18 years old.. so roughly 1900, give or take a year. I've tried coloring this one too and it just doesn't turn out well. Charles was the son of Benjamin Hardin LaRue and Mary Philapine Lawrey. He was the husband of Carrie Annie Byrd and Sarah (Beck) Staser. (1883-1980). 





Above is my 2x Grandmother, Mary Janella (Nally) Thompson. This is a zoom in of her face from a photograph of her and her twin sister. But just look at how much clearer she is.. I'm in awe, I'm stunned.. She was so magnificently beautiful. I wish her beauty would have passed down to me. (1882-1972)





Above is Mary Janella's twin sister, Camilla (Nally) Thompson. Janella & Camilla married brothers -- John Rowan Thompson & Samuel "Sam" Thompson. Thanks to this zoom in and enhancement, we can see that Camilla had a large scar on her face. Assuming this isn't mirrored photography, and she's looking at the camera, it would be on her left side I believe. I ponder what happened? I've never heard stories of her having had a scar before. My Nana nor my Grandma ever said anything about it. I wonder if it had faded by the time my Grandmother was born? (1882-1962)

Janella & Camilla were the daughters of Henry Oliver Nally and Vandalia Gibson. They were second cousins with their Thompson husbands. The Thompson's were sons of Martin Henry Thompson and Elizabeth Levina "Lou" Nally. 

If you've never tried the Remini photo app, please do! It works absolute wonders on your old photographs. 

The Young Death of Mary Elizabeth (Puryear) Denton

It's always sad to come across young death when doing genealogy. 

Mary Elizabeth Puryear was the daughter of John William Puryear and Mary Elizabeth Eubank. On her tombstone, she's incorrectly listed as being born on November 30th, 1857 - birth records indicate she was born March 21st, 1857, instead. 

She married Lawrence Theodore Denton on January 15th, 1879, and it wasn't long before she was pregnant with their first child. Unfortunately, I've found no record of said child so it ultimately had to be a miscarriage or stillbirth. 

On November 25th, 1879, she died of Puerperal Fever which is a fever caused by a uterine infection after childbirth. She was only 22 years of age. (21 if you go by her tombstone but.. again.. it has the wrong date.) She is buried in McClure Cemetery in Boxville (Union County) Kentucky. The tombstone photograph credit goes to fellow Find-a-Graver David Melton. 

Lawrence went on to re-marry Nollie Taylor and have a passel of children.




Gone, but not forgotten.

The Tragic Fate of Mr. Isom Cottingham



Every time I come across Isham "Isom" Cottingham.. a part of me weeps. It's so sad that he would attempt to take his own life, over his wife, and survive it... only to end up succumbing to it a few days later. He begged doctors to save his life. That part really cuts me. 

Even at 28, I've already lost friends to suicide. I attempted it a few times in my teenage years. I actually never thought I would make it to 28 years old. A part of me in stumbling through life, unsure of what to do or how to function properly because I never thought I'd still be here. 

Suicidal feelings are a funny thing.. and not funny ha-ha. They're very strange. 
In some aspects, especially for me and my suicidal feelings in the past.. it wasn't so much that I wanted to die or hurt those I loved by leaving them... it's just the fact you want your pain to end, your own suffering to end.. and you think you're at the bottom of a pit that you cannot climb back out of. 

If it wasn't for the cemetery group bringing out of one of the darkest times of my life, I'm not sure I'd still be here. If it wasn't for my genealogy business and giving me a sense of, "I can't die while I've got clients binders to finish," I possibly might not still be here. 

If it weren't for the friendships I've come into over the past few years, especially the relationship I have with my "adoptive" Granny Dixie.. I might not still be here. If anyone ever has these thoughts/feelings/ideations in their head... please reach out to me. I'm always here to listen. 

Isham "Isom" Cottingham was the son of Albert Gardner Cottingham and Ellen C. Liles. He was the husband of Lauretta Virginia Russell. They married on December 22nd, 1897, and had a passel of children. 

They are buried in "Boxville Odd Fellows David Rest Cemetery" in Boxville, Union County, Kentucky. 

I hope and pray Isom Cottingham went on to a better life in the heavens where he was no longer sad, or unhappy, or in any pain.

Chester Wyatt Alexander: Baskett Man Killed by Train


The other day while searching on Genealogy Bank, I came across an article about the sad death of Chester Wyatt Alexander. He was hit by a train at Hoffman's Crossing (near Spottsville) here in Henderson County, Kentucky. I'm not entirely sure which railroad crossing is Hoffman's Crossing, as the railroad crosses over a many roads between the city of Henderson and the Green River in Spottsville.

Chester Wyatt Alexander was the son of Thomas Iradell Alexander and Mary Lou Townsend. His sister, Loretta (Alexander) DePriest Hatfield is the 2x Grandmother on this Puryear/Tivitt tree I've been working on for the last few months. 

His siblings, including Loretta, were Malcolm Yeaman Alexander, Charles Augusta Alexander, Martha Mae "Mattie" (Alexander) Morrow, Gilbert Lee Alexander, Robert Allen Alexander, Mary Ellen (Alexander) Clark, and Richard Lyona Alexander. 

A good friend of mine actually descends from the brother, Robert Allen Alexander - so Thomas & Mary Lou would be her 2x Grandparents. 

Only 50 years old... how very sad. As far as I can tell, Chester never married nor did he have any children. He was buried in Fernwood Cemetery here in Henderson, which I coincidentally live right beside. It appears he doesn't have a tombstone, either. 

I did manage to find a photograph of the train that hit him.. makes things even more "real," if you will. 



Gone, but not forgotten.

Monday, July 19, 2021

52 Ancestors 2021: Week 27: Free (An introduction to my followers)

 


Update: On November 7th, 2021, I decided to use this blog post as my "free for all" for the topic "Free" - 52 Ancestors challenge, week 27. 

I'm Brecca. I'm 28 years old, born and raised in Western Kentucky. My family has deep roots here in Henderson County and I couldn't think of a better place to have grown up and to live currently. 

I've been doing genealogy since I was seven years old (2000). It started out as a simple question poised to my Great-Grandmother, "Nana, did you know any of your Great-Grandparents?" Unfortunately, she had Alzheimer's and couldn't answer it. 

My Grandma and I took to doing the family tree the old way. I learned how to do genealogy in the genealogy department at the Henderson County Public Library. Grandma and I spent hours looking at census books, and learning how to work the software on the computer to find birth, marriage, and death records. 

Undeniably, I was bitten by the "genealogy bug." I wouldn't have it any other way. I've always been the "weird" kid. I always preferred to sit with the grown ups and listen to stories from yesteryears, the days gone by. I loved hearing stories of my Grandparents youth. I loved hearing about my Great-Grandparents, and my Great-Great-Grandparents. My Mom was lucky enough to know 3 of her Great-Grandparents...they were born in the 1880's!! (So jealous.) 

Being a genealogist has always been a dream job of mine. I had lost hope of becoming one because of how costly and how many hurdles you had to jump through to become a "certified" genealogist.. and there's only one university that provides a proper degree in family history and you have to be of their religion to attend. It looked like my dreams were crushed. 

At the end of 2016, a couple of my good online friends said they'd pay me $20 to do their tree regardless of a degree or certification... and the rest is history. I started this little "at home" "side hustle" and it became my full-time self-employed job. With twenty-one years experience, I realized I didn't need a fancy degree or certificate to show I know what I know. I just needed the skills and confidence... trust me, I have that by the bucket loads when it comes to genealogy. 

In 2018, I dipped into genetic genealogy by doing my DNA. I worked on my own, my parents, and then some of my best friends'. I accidentally stumbled upon some skeletons in my friends' DNA and solved some paternity cases.. Here it is 2021 and I've found the biological family for at least nine people now. DNA is by far my favorite thing about genealogy these days. It's fascinating. 

My big ticket item as a business are my family tree binders. I do small, medium, and large binders now. They take a lot of time to prepare.. a lot of my blood, sweat, and tears (quite literally) go into them and I've been told they're worth every penny. 

I love nothing more than working on a Henderson roots family tree. More than likely, if you were born here in Henderson to parents that are from here, too... we're related. 

Some of my ancestral names here in Henderson/Union/Webster are: Blanford, Sandefur, Nally, Thompson, McBride, Raley, Moss, Hazelwood, Mattingly, Gibson, Busby, Duncan, Denton, LaRue, Lawrey, and more. 

My paternal names (not from Henderson) include: Mefford, Jones, Bastin, White, Turner, Knight, Hardison, Bowers, Wilder, Singleton, Brown, Goff, Jeffords, and more. 

In late 2015/early 2016, I helped found the group "Henderson Ky Cemetery Research." As of 2021, I'm the lone ranger and don't get out to cemeteries even a quarter as much as I'd like to. In early 2019, I started the group "WKM Cemetery Research," to encompass the entire Western Kentucky Metro area -- Western KY, Southern Indiana, Southern Illinois, Southeastern Missouri, and maybe even western Tennessee! I've been in the newspaper a couple different times for the cemetery group and attending historical events here in Henderson & Evansville. 

I live in both Henderson, KY, and Sebree, KY, now so when it comes to cemeteries -- Henderson, Union, and Webster are my main focus. But I have dabbled some in visiting cemeteries in Daviess, McLean, Ohio, Crittenden, Livingston counties. When it comes to my Dad's side of the family, a lot of them are buried in Muhlenberg County, Butler County, and Logan County. 

I consider myself a bit of a "local historian," when it comes to Henderson. I've even played tour guide to a famous Gibson cousin -- an Emmy-winning journalist! Realistically in the future, I'd like "tour guide," to be part of my job title. 

I'd love to get to know each and every one of you, so please don't hesitate to comment this and tell me a bit about yourself and your genealogical journey!! Thank you for following and supporting my dreams!!

Saturday, July 10, 2021

52 Ancestors 2021: Week 19: Mother's Day

 First and foremost, I want to apologize in the delay in my writing any blog posts. On June 7th, this laptop took a turn for the worst. It suddenly started saying, "no hard drive found," and I thought it was screwed, for lack of a better term. So on June 8th, I ordered off for a new laptop. 

From June 8th until July 2nd, I was using my Uncle's old HP laptop to try and get at least the bare minimum of genealogy done... but I grew more frustrated with it every single day. It was so slow that I wanted to pull my hair out every single time it tried to load a page. On July 2nd, on just a shites and giggles whim, I tried this laptop, and for some reason it was working again -- but the keyboard isn't. 

Alas, having worked an online job for years and years... I have a USB/wireless keyboard...so that's what I'm using to type on this laptop. My NEW laptop was meant to be here on July 9th... but it's delayed. I'm guessing Dell is having a hard time getting the parts from China, or Taiwan, or wherever they get their stock parts from. The new revised date is August 4th. 

Anyway... onward to the topic at hand: Mother's Day. 

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I thought I'd take a moment to write about each of my maternal ancestors -- the ones I know are 100% at least and talk about my maternal haplogroup (DNA) as well. Upon doing my 23andme, I learned that my maternal haplogroup is H4a. 

From the best of what I understand... H4a is one of many haplogroups that is popular among England - which my Mother is heavily English. It, too, has a heavy presence in Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Finland, and other areas you'd consider "Viking territory." 

My hypothesis as to why our maternal haplogroup is H4a is the fact that Vikings, as you well know, raided and plundered England many many generations ago. They also started to intermingle with the English settlers... marry, have children, etc. I believe we descend from those Viking/English ancestors. 

My direct maternal line starts with my Mother, who was born right here in Henderson County and has remained here her entire life (she's 58 this year). Since she's still living, I won't tell you a whole lot about her in specific.. but beyond her, I'll try and speak a little more in depth about each of my direct maternal ancestors. My Mother takes after her father (James Allen Blanford Sr) and thus has a dark, "farmers tan" style complexion and icy blue eyes.

My Grandmother, Glynda Jane (Sandefur) Blanford was born at home on Letcher St. here in Henderson, Kentucky, on June 13th, 1941. She was the fourth child born to Henry Lloyd Sandefur and Anna Elizabeth Thompson. By the time she was a young girl, the family moved out to the Niagara community in our county. Very rural but very quaint. Sometime in 1961, she met my Grandpa while at the bowling alley with some friends. By March 31st, 1962, they married at Bellfield Baptist Church, which was my Grandma's church. My Grandpa was a Catholic.




My Grandmother was my genealogy partner until she got sick with what we believe was Parkinson's and dementia (not the Alzheimer's that her sisters tried to sell it as.) My Grandma passed away on December 8th, 2015. My Grandmother took after her mother with her dark brown eyes but had a pale complexion. Grandma and Grandpa are buried in St. Louis Cemetery here in Henderson. 

My Great-Grandmother, Anna (Thompson) Sandefur was born on August 18th, 1916, at home in the "Walnut Bottom" area of Henderson County, which in today's terms is known as Smith Mills. She was the seventh children born to John Rowan Thompson and Mary Janella Nally. On August 25th, 1933, she and Henry Lloyd Sandefur eloped to Old Shawneetown, Illinois, and married there. Nana, as I called her, is the entire reason I started genealogy. I was fortunate to know her in my youth and I had the curious question of, "did you know any of your Great-Grandparents?" However...she couldn't answer it. She, too, I believe, had Parkinson's and dementia that was stereotyped as Alzheimer's. Nana had an "olive complexion" as we call it. She had dark brown eyes. Nana passed away when I was eight years old, on October 2nd, 2001. Nana and Poppy were of the Baptist faith although Nana would have been raised Catholic. They are buried in Fernwood Cemetery here in Henderson.




My 2x Grandmother, Mary Janella (Nally) Thompson was born a twin of Camilla on October 20th, 1882, in rural Union County, Kentucky. It's likely they lived in the portion of Union County that is close to Smith Mills (which is Henderson County.) Definitely around the Highland Creek area. Her parents were Henry Oliver Nally and Vandalia Delia Gibson. On October 28th, 1902, Janella married her second cousin, John Rowan Thompson. They married in the Catholic church. She had blue eyes and an olive colored complexion, according to my Mom. Maw, as she was called, passed away on December 29th, 1972, of stomach cancer and arteriosclerotic heart disease, the latter she had for a number of years.. She and her husband are buried in Roselawn Memorial Gardens here in Henderson. 




My 3x Grandmother, Vandalia Delia (Gibson) Nally was the daughter of John Gregory Gibson and Mahala Caroline Busby, born on December 21st, 1856, in the outskirts of the Corydon/Cairo areas of Henderson County. Vannie, as she was called, married Henry Oliver Nally on January 28th, 1880, in the Old Highland Missionary Baptist Church.. that's surprising as I know the Nally's were Catholic -- but I'm going to go out on a limb and say the Gibson's were of Baptist faith. Vannie birthed two sets of twins... and twins apparently run in the Gibson, Nally, and Thompson families. I have unfortunately never been able to procure a photograph of my 3x Grandparents. Vannie passed away on July 5th, 1949, of arteriosclerotic heart disease of which she had for thirty years. Vannie and Henry are buried in the old Gibson Family Cemetery in Corydon. 




My 4x Grandmother, Mahala Caroline Busby, was born in January of 1820, in either Kentucky or Tennessee. In the 1820 census, her parents were listed in Sumner County, Tennessee, IF it's the correct people... but her parents married in 1813 in Henderson County, Kentucky. So, definitely born in Kentucky or Tennessee. She was the daughter of William Busby and Elizabeth Denton. By November 1st, 1841, Mahala was back in Henderson and married John Gregory Gibson. They had an absolute slew of children: 13 if I've counted correctly. at least 5 that died before the age of 20. They populated the county with Gibson's and the Gibson Cemetery with descendants. She and John Gregory are buried in the old Gibson Family Cemetery. 



My 5x Grandmother, Elizabeth Denton, was the daughter of Benjamin Denton and Priscilla Rebecca Wiggins; she was born on March 10th, 1790, likely in North Carolina. However, by December 28th, 1813, she lived in Henderson County, KY, where she married William L. Busby. They moved to Tennessee for a short time, where William died in 1830, and Elizabeth returned to Henderson County. Elizabeth herself passed away on March 13th, 1856, in Henderson County, and is buried in Talbott Cemetery in the Robards area of the county. That cemetery is horrendously overgrown and not taken care of. I wish I could see it cleaned up in my lifetime before Elizabeth's tombstone is completely erased from existence. The reason she's buried in that small cemetery of (quite possibly) only five graves is because her daughter, Celia, married a Talbott. 



My 6x Grandmother, Priscilla Rebecca "Celia" Wiggins was born in the year of 1755 in the Granville County area of North Carolina to parents Thomas Wiggins and Elizabeth Tabitha Cooper. On November 18th, 1772, in Granville County, Celia married Benjamin Denton. It is reported that Celia died in 1808 in White County, Tennessee. Her husband reportedly died there in 1810. I've never found an actual census record or land record of them being in White County, TN. Their descendants helped populate Henderson County with Denton's that are still in this county to this day! 

My 7x Grandmother, Elizabeth Tabitha Cooper, was born about 1735 and married Thomas Wiggins in roughly 1753 in North Carolina. On an application for the Sons of the American Revolution, they say she died around 1764 -- but I think she actually died closer to 1782. She's definitely deceased by 1796 when her husband, Thomas, re-marries to Frances Holman. Thomas passed away in either the last week of 1798 or the first day or two of 1799 as his will was probated on January 3rd, 1799, in Granville County, NC. 

Now, beyond Elizabeth (Cooper) Wiggins, I haven't made any DNA connections - which is normal with autosomal DNA. Autosomal DNA... unless you've got some heavy heavy heavy endogamy/intermarrying/inbreeding in the line, you aren't going to make matches with like 9th, 10th, 11th+ cousins. I have indeed made DNA matches with 8th cousins through Elizabeth Cooper & Thomas Wiggins. My Mom has made DNA matches through them as well. It is possible if my Mom does her mtDNA test over at FamilyTreeDNA, we might be able to make matches from further back this line.

So going off of folklore for the rest of this line..

My 8x Grandmother is reportedly Elizabeth (Cannon) Cooper. She was born, roughly, in 1717 likely in Virginia. She married Benjamin Cooper Sr in 1734 in Surry County, Virginia. Elizabeth is said to be the daughter of John Cannon and Mary Price. Her husband, Benjamin, his will was written in 1759 and probated in 1761. It appears by the time he writes his will, that his wife, Elizabeth, has passed away... he does not mention a widow or spouse or wife. I believe their last child was born around 1753.. so it's likely Elizabeth could have died 1755 or sometime around then. 

My 9x Grandmother is said to be Mary (Price) Cannon. She likely would have been born around 1691 in Virginia and probably married around 1713 or just after. Her husband, John Cannon, was said to be born about 1688 and died 1734. I can't find any records mentioning them. The only records Mary can be found in are specific to her parents -- John Price and Jane Pugh/Pew. 

My 10x Grandmother is supposedly Jane Pugh (or Pew). She is said to have been born in 1659 in Henrico County, Virginia, the daughter of Jane Milner and Henry Pugh/Pew. It is said she married John Price in 1688 in Henrico Co, VA. They have at least five documented children: Mary, Elizabeth, John, Pugh/Pew, and Daniel. John died sometime around 1711 and Jane remarried Hugh Ligon. There were no children born to this union. Hugh is listed as being a descendant of the Plantagenets. Jane is recorded as dying on December 7th, 1713, in Henrico Co, VA. While Jane supposedly doesn't have any famous descendants -- she does have some famous relations according to her Find-a-Grave. 

My 11x Grandmother is said to be Jane (Milner) Pugh/Pew. She is supposed to be the daughter of John Milner and Elizabeth Rolfe. Elizabeth is said to have died in childbirth or the day after in 1635. She was born in Henrico County, Virginia. She married Henry Pugh/Pew in about 1658 in Henrico County, VA. Jane and Henry had at least four known children: Mary, Jane, Henry, and Elizabeth Ann. Jane, too, shows famous relations on Ancestry Beta, according to the manager of her Find-a-Grave profile. Jane is recorded as dying in April of 1709, in Henrico County. 

My 12x Grandmother is said to be none other than Elizabeth Pierce (Rolfe) Milner. Elizabeth is the daughter of THE John Rolfe (husband of Pocahontas) and his third wife, Jane Pierce. Elizabeth was born January 25th, 1620, in Jamestown, Virginia. Please note that she would have only been 15 years old when she married John Milner, who was at least 17 or 18 years old.. and she only had the one child with him: Jane Milner. It is said she died during or right after childbirth. John Milner was said to be of Nansemond, Virginia. 

My 13x Grandmother was Jane (Pierce) Rolfe, the third wife of the John Rolfe -- who had at least one child with Pocahontas. Jane was born about 1595 likely in England and died 1635, reportedly, likely in Virginia. She was the daughter of William Pierce of Virginia who is often confused with Pilgrim/Colonist William Pierce of Massachusettes. She married John Rolfe in 1619 in Virginia and had at least one child: Elizabeth, in 1620 in Jamestown. John Rolfe died in the Indian Massacre of 1622. Three years later, Jane remarried Captain Roger Smith. (To read more on William "Peirce" (Pierce): Click here. It is reported that Jane's first name was spelled "Joane" but it appears historians interchangeably use Joane and Jane. There is a marriage record for a John Rolfe and Joane Pierce in 1612 in New England records, but, we know they couldn't have married that early. In John Rolfe's will, made out in 1621 (he died in 1622), he appointed William Peirce as the guardian of his children. Apparently William Peirce and John Rolfe met in Bermuda after Peirce's ship, on which he was aboard, crashed. His wife and daughter were on a separate ship and arrived safely in Virginia ahead of him. 

My 14x Grandmother is said Joane/Jane, wife of William Peirce/Pierce, colonist of Virginia. It is likely that she, too, was born around 1580 and had their only child, Jane, when she was roughly 15 years of age in 1595. She was born in England, like William, and they married there. They did not sail for the new world until 1609. Joane and her daughter, Jane, arrived in Virginia safely as they were on a separate ship from William. William, however, crashed in Bermuda and that's where he met John Rolfe who would later marry his daughter. 

This is as far as I can take my direct maternal line. I'm really, really hoping that this information is correct. I would love to be a descendant of Jane (Pierce) Rolfe. It's depressing to not be a Bolling/descendant of Pocahontas, but ya know, being a descendant of John Rolfe is just as neat. 

Are any of you descendants of any of these people? Would you like to compare GEDMatch results maybe? My Mom and I both are on there. It's entirely possible we might be 8th cousin sand share a whopping 6 or 7 cM, lol. 

It's amazing to think a line of my family has been here in America since 1609 when America didn't even become "America" until 1776. I mean, 1609 is even prior to the Mayflower pilgrims landing at Plymouth Rock. So I can say my family has been here since pre-Mayflower... or at least one branch of it. Very cool in my opinion as a genealogist.